One way is to go to Crispers on the third Friday of the month for the TOTV luncheone. You will meet people from this forum.
There are singles dances and clubs you can join. Chachacha would know better.
Since you like to dance, i would recommend you talk to kathieI as she knows all the palces to dance.
BTW - I sent a friend invitation to you.
To make a friend:
1. Right click on you profile name.
2. Select "edit friend list".
3. In "add a member to your list" box, type in the name you want to make friends with.
4. Click on "add friend".
A friendship request will be sent and when accepted, you have a friend.
I hope this helps.
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