kitty, i have met so many wonderful men and women friends from posting on here because people see me as sort of a one-woman welcome committee and they pm me when they are coming and i try to meet them and introduce them to a few other singles to get them off to a good start...if you post regularly here, others will recognize that you are also an ambassador, if you will, and you will meet people, too! you are off to a good start with some very good posts! also sending you a pm...