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Originally Posted by Madelaine Amee
Agree entirely with this last comment. But, I think this is the same with all immigrants who come to our countries looking for a better life, not so much for themselves, but definitely for their children.
One only has to look at the professions to see who are taking over the top positions, mainly children of immigrants because (IMO) they see the opportunities which they would never have had in their own countries, but our children have grown up with these opportunities and are very much inclined to take them for granted.
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I think you are right. And because children are being raised by others now rather than in the home like ours were, they aren't exactly getting the same things told them, day after day. And because we moms were human, we would be impatient if they didn't act fairly decently. We wanted them to turn out right. All of those things have changed. There are good caregivers for little ones but it is NOT the same, or as effective as people being with their
own children when they are little and learning what matters from someone who truly loves you. (values)
But... all of those things cannot fix someone who is deranged or mentally ill. That isn't an issue with a simple answer.