I agree with the above posters who say you and your husband should live a separate life. As much as I love my son and that's a lot, we both agree that it is better that we live our separate lives. My son would be thrilled for me when I move to TV as he knows it is right for me.
My son is in a business where moving is sometimes required to get a promotion. Although he won't move from Florida yet, who knows idf he won't in the future, Then, where will I be if I am living my life through him and my grandchild? It's much better for you to have your friends and life that you truly enjoy.
The grandkids came come for a visit and everybody wins. After all. doesn't airplanes fly in both directions?
Do want is right for you or you will be living in a constant state of anxiety.
Botom line for me is, "will I be able to sleep at night with this decision".
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"It doesn't cost "nuttin", to be nice".  MOM
I just want to do the right thing! Uncle Joe, (my hero).
Last edited by 2BNTV; 12-18-2012 at 01:02 PM.
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