[OldDave]

I think being non-judgemental is very, very difficult, especially for me. I tend to analyse, critic and offer my opinion when it is not asked for, and certainly not needed. (Big surprise to the rest of you, eh?) Perhaps that's why I've been harping about civil discourse so much lately. It is truly my wish in my later years to be able to change this.

I agree with other comments and would add these tips to help.

DO NOT offer your opinon or observation on something that really doesn't matter to you, unless asked for it.

NEVER discuss politics or religion if there is any way humanly possible to avoid doing so.

THINK before you speak. And try to put yourself in the listeners shoes when you do.

If you have to disagree with someone, make sure it truly is important enough that you need to do it.

Understand there is seldom one right answer, or one right way to do anything. Yours may be valid, but it may not be any better than anyone else's.

Always keep in mind that just because the person you're talking with is the same race, religion or political party as you, doesn't mean they have all the same views as you do. If you do assume it, you'll like offend them and not even know it. LISTEN is always a good place to start, before you talk.


Now, if I can just embrace these things, I know I'll be a happier person, and so will those around me.