well, having something to which to look forward is a great plan...today i bought my ticket for the Villages Valentine Singles Dance for only $6. granted it is on friday, the day AFTER valentine's day but hey, i am not overly sentimental....there are still plenty of tickets so please support this dance or they won't be having many more, i am sure..i am all by myself so far at table 9! surprise me!

music by the Keatings, to be held at Lake Miona rec center...as for thursday, i think i am going to get some recently widowed friends together to share photos and stories of their late hubbies and celebrate their memories. i think that will help them and me, too!