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I take exception to what you said. Our ladies group plays every week...some are out to enjoy the fresh air, the beautiful scenery and get a little exercise....some, to improve their game. We golf and might not really be concerned about how well or poorly we are playing, but do realize and recognize that we aren't the only people on the course so we don't hold up other golfers. If some of the ladies want to work on their game, they don't have difficulty since the pace of play isn't slowed by others in the group.
Then it's time for lunch, when all in the foursomes gather for good food, good conversation, laughter and relaxation.