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I think the idea of putting all your plans and information in a book or on other media for your children is a wonderful idea. We haven't actually done that, but we think we have a plan.

Even though we are "youngsters" in The Villages we moved here because our son is severely disabled, but he is very social. TheVillages is perfect for our needs now, and we have a future plan made too!

My mom is here in The Villages in her own patio villa, and she's 83. Still very independent, drives her own car, does her own housecleaning, etc ( I wish she'd do mine too! ;-) )

Anyway, in a few years she says she'll be ready for assisted living, and there are many new ones being built nearby.....that's good.

Our son will need skilled nursing in a few years, and we have become ok with that too.

We have one grown up son who will handle all our needs someday for us but we also have a contingency plan with a trust to take over in case he is unable to do it.