I agree with those who say both. I used to play seriously,competitively, but this game will tear your guts out if you take it too seriously. Now I only comptete with myself, striving to get better, but not agonizing about it. I want to play the best golf I can at my age and with my infirmities.
When I'm on the course, I play with people with a mix of abilities and we have a great time. We congratulate each other on our good shots and keep quiet when we hit a clunker. The only advice I ever give on the course is when I see someone not caring for the course or unknowingly using poor golf etiquette. A gentle reminder or comment usually suffices.
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