[redwitch]

I'm a loner. Always have been. I have no interest in dating. BTDT, don't want to ever do it again. At the same time, I do like being around some people (male and female) and I dearly love playing games, especially card games. So, I've managed to find my core group in games -- bridge, Mah-Jongg, Triple Play, poker.

You'll find your niche. As to how long it takes, I'd say that depends on you -- if you're outgoing like Kathie, you won't have any problems. If you're quiet and shy, it will take longer. If you're in the middle, then you'll quickly make friends in some groups but take longer to be accepted in others. Regardless, you'll only be as lonely as you choose to be.