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Originally Posted by kittygilchrist
aaah, good to see you Katie, your post and all the replies and readers made it clear that you and I are not the only ones trying to figure out what it's like to be in a subgroup of TV's fishbowl. I hope to be extra careful about dating if I decide to date, bc I've learned the hard way that one ex can poison your inner circle and your favorite hangouts.
Kitty
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Whether it be in The Villages or Newport Beach where I currently reside dating within a community can certainly be problematic. If/when a relationship goes south which most dating relationships eventually do it is best to terminate them as pleasantly as possible. An amicable ending requires some form of closure and the cooperation of both parties. Unfortunately if when a relationships ends one partner is angry, bitter, vengeful or mentally just-not-right one's reputation can be at minimum blemished and at most destroyed.
When dating within a community proceed with caution!