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I'm so sorry all of this is taking place......trying to solve an issue with your POA and dealing with a neighbor who could potentially be breaking laws. If the child is living there for an extended period, that's one violation, if the owner is spraying humans with a hose, potentially another violation. If the child is reaching through the fence, handling things that shouldn't be handled, the parent and/or grandparent is allowing a potentially dangerous situation.
One question.....is the land the dog club uses Stonecrest land? If the area is a good one and all that is needed is fencing, why can't the club members raise money themselves and fence in an area? Maybe that has been suggested and rejected by the POA previously.

I'm sorry your group has to deal with such a situation. You are trying to be responsible pet owners and so far nothing has been a positive. I'm not sure The Villages POA can help, would help, how they could help. Hopefully the homeowner you are dealing with and the violations and bad behavior she exhibits, will be addressed by those who can take appropriate actions and a reasonable resolution for all will be found and soon.