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Originally Posted by l2ridehd
I for one think there is another side to this issue. So I ask why do people join a group, join a club, move to a city or country or other such thing and then because they don't like it, try to change it? Don't join in the first place. Don't move there. Don't belong. Most people are able to do enough research on any of these life changes before they make the move, or before they join a group or club. Then they want to change it. Suggestions and positive improvements are OK. But even then if you make a suggestion and it is explained why it is the way it is, move on.
Or should we all go out and lobby to allow large pink Flamingo's on our lawn? When I bought here I knew the rule was I could not do that. And if that is so important to me that I want to complain, lobby, instigate and in other ways try to change that rule, I should just move elsewhere where I can do it. JMHO.
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That is how I see it too.
And Gomoho, there are those who ONLY complain and it is very transparent, you can read all of their posts, in one way or another it is the same song with the same lyrics. You know what they are going to say and it is going to be a rant.I have gone past thinking they are having a bad day and think they have a beef or an agenda. Some always are on the food and the restaurants, some are always on the developer, some are always on diet, some are always on politics, someway, somehow.Some people are always positive and they are thought to have their own motives and maybe they do. I like their motives better in the morning with my coffee.
I feel bad for a new person complaining, because the collective readers say to themselves, we are off to the races.
I agree with the above poster, find out if you like it or don't first and don't come to change it.