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Originally Posted by ijusluvit
In the olden days, somehow the 11 year-olds found a way to get together and play. They'd be gone all day and get back around supper, a little dirty and tired.
In modern times kids don't always think of this on their own, nor do they have much of an idea of what to do if they are together with age mates. Parents seem to know about organizing 'playdates' for little kids, but I think it might only be grandparents who can tutor an 11 year-old on how to just go out and play.
Good luck! And may the force be with you!
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I agree 100% with you! The problem here in The Villages though is there are no trees to climb, no neighborhood school yards with equipment to play on or use for forts or castles, yards that are small providing little space for play, lack of toys/bicycles, scooters, skateboards, sports paraphernalia, etc., and no neighborhood children to share in play.
My 8 year old grandson almost lives outside playing when he's at his home. He has all his toys there plus neighborhood friends. He doesn't have those here in TV so I am also faced with how to keep him entertained when he comes to visit.
However, an 11 year old is getting to the age where he most likely doesn't "play" anymore, at least not in the sense of how we think of "play". Developmentally, he is probably into sports and "hanging out" with friends which is more challenging to fulfill when visiting a retirement community. (I didn't mention video games because that is almost a given activity for all kids. To me, playing video games is not a good choice when trying to keep a child active.)