'Sudden Death' Robs Us of The Chance to Say Goodbye......
I still remember getting the phone call many moons ago from my childhood friend's husband, saying she had passed away suddenly overnight, at age 39.
She wasn't alone at the time, but in the emergency room of her hospital, with her husband at her side......but it was still unexpected, nevertheless.......enlarged heart.
I got the call the next morning......
Long terminal illnesses give loved ones , and the patient themselves, a chance for closure and goodbyes.........whereas "sudden death" is always difficult.
Happening to such a young person, as your friend's husband....is very hard.
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