Was your dad a veteran? If so, your mom may be eligible to receive assistance if she were to choose assisted living. If she needs assistance with anything such as medications she might qualify. She would still have a lot of independence, it depends on her needs. I had looked into this option with my dad but he still wants to live independently and although he would qualify he decided it wasn't for him at this time (he is almost 86 and is still very independent). He is purchasing a manufactured home at Parkwood Manor in Wildwood.
We also looked at senior town-homes for rent in Fruitland Park and Lady Lake. There is an income threshold to qualify for senior pricing. I am not aware of activities but they are very nice.
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