My father's ashes went into the ocean, my godparents are in a river in upstate NY, my mother we took down to Atlantic City in the ocean. My grandmother put my grandfather's ashes in her rose bushes on Long Island, however, she moved away and when she passed, I couldn't see us asking strangers if I could put her ashes in the rose bush with her husband, so we put her in our rose bushes. Even one of our dogs ashes are in the backyard, so it will be cremation for us also. The idea of making a vacation out of it for whom ever has to dispose of them sounds like a great way to make it a happy memory.
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