In my humble opinion this sort of thing is rare in comparison to the whole of The Villages. Think about the number of smiling faces greeting you each day. Recall the little acts of kindness from people you never saw before that moment. Remember the causal small talk by golfers as they check in at the starter shacks.
The one issue I find that is not exaggerated here is the quality of the majority of people here. In seven years I can't count on one hand the number of people I would avoid. This The Villages does well.