Oh, it is indeed stressful, but do recognize that we all survived and you will, too.
We spend time trying to figure out what to bring, where to put it, is this an important item in our lives, should we save this for the kids, etc, etc, etc.
We had movers and before they packed up our stuff, we purged. Many things went to neighbors or family or charity and still we brought lots of stuff. At this point, we have very little of the furniture we moved here. Over 7 years things have changed, we have changed. If you have any doubts about bringing anything, don't bring it. Your new home is different from the one you're in and chances are you will have so many more activities to keep you busy. Why should taking care of more than you need be more important than doing things you might want to do....sports, clubs, volunteering, working if you so desire.
When you arrive, take your time getting set up. Do the kitchen and your master suite. Those rooms are important...you need to eat and you do need to sleep...
. Drive around, meet your neighbors, drive to some of the nearby towns. Realize that you make your own schedule, don't pass on an opportunity to spend time with new friends....have fun! Things will get done, eventually...
. Many of us still have boxes in the attic and one of these days....
