Thank you buggyone for the sage advice. My neighbors have been nothing more than accepting after they come to know both myself and my wife. The "near" neighbors are not the problem. The continuing looks, glances, and jibes while at the squares, pools, rec centers, followed by the "how is it possible that you belong here?" queries are a problem. At first, I just assumed the "I belong" attitude. Now I just avoid functions altogether. I believe I have every right to participate as a homeowner, or do I not because I am 48? I am a retiree as well.
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