I'm not a woman, but if I were you could simply address me by saying "Hey toots! What's kick'n?" Seriously, I myself wouldn't get upset by the usage of such terms so long as they're not outright insulting. About a week ago someone addressed me as "young man." I didn't react to it or feel upset by it at all. Once they left us however, I said to my wife... "Now I know that I really am a senior citizen!" As I've said many a times... "I don't care what you call me so long as you don't call me late for dinner!"
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ARE VILLAGERS OLD OR ARE THEY RECYCLED TEENAGERS
At my age rolling out of bed in the morning is easy.
Getting up off the floor is another story.
"SMILE... TOMORROW MAY BE EVEN WORSE!"