I am bowing out of this discussion. If someone is happy, content and having fun there is no way in heck I would want to impact that, not that I have any control over another's view.
There was an old adage where 3 monkey's (no pun meant) were given blind folds and after touching an elephants leg were asked what they just felt and each had a very different impression. This is similar as just reading through some of the answers you can see many have different views of the same conditions. It would be a terrible act to write and change the view of someone who is happy and content. Given this I am withdrawing as the last thing I would ever want to do is take away the joy someone is having in their life. The original intent was to stimulate some thought of the future but it has taken on a different life of its own and that was not my intent.
