Wrkdhrd,
So far we don't know anything about you. Maybe a $100,000 home and $5,000 golf cart are way above your means. Maybe you come from a very small town. Maybe moving anywhere is way out of your comfort zone. Maybe you are just shy, although your posts don't show that.
Regardless of finances, one thing that draws people to The Villages is a friendly, outgoing and joining attitude. Even if they only walk around smelling the flowers and saying hello to the people they meet. Over time these people may be drawn into activities by their neighbors, and really enjoy living here, without ever golfing or dancing in the squares.
Now, if you have spent your life devoid of these kind of relationships, then you may be very unhappy here. I sense that you and the hubby are solitary people. Maybe you are looking for an affordable place to hang out and be left alone.
A Lifestyle visit will show you what's under the covers here. Don't judge the place by the rantings of people on TOTV. It is a low-risk experiment, that could just get you turned around. I hope you can spare the time and funds to come on over.
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