I'm not at that point yet, but have given it some thought. Of course being around your family is comforting in some ways, but also stressful. I would hate to put my children in the position of caregiver. It would be a burden on them ( no matter how willing they were) and I do not want that. Rather deal with a health care person who is paid to do the job. I would in your case, stay put and take advantage of the assistance the Villages provide. I would do whatever it takes to stay where the weather allows you get out, where there are people with whom you can spent time, where you are happiest. Your children have their own life, you live yours life where it is best for you.
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