Dreamer - had mom in assisted living about an hour from here, but near my brother. When the decision was made she needed to move to memory care we decided to move her closer to me since I am retired and more available.
The move was very difficult for her and the staff kept telling me to give her time to adjust. It's been a little over a year and she has settled in as well as can be expected considering her dementia. The most difficult part is for them to re-establish a routine in their new surroundings, and I am talking things as simple as where their room is or the dining room, but a good, caring staff will work with the resident.
So yes, it can be done, especially if you choose the right facility. Good luck with whatever you decide - it's not easy.
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