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Old 11-04-2013, 10:17 AM
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Hello Everyone, I am a SWF and I will be moving to TV in a couple of weeks as a snowbird. I am a little nervous, which isn't normally like me but this is a big step for me. I purchased my home in TV in April and returned to my home in N.E. PA without even spending a night in my new home. I recently returned for a short visit and purchased a few items for my Patio Villa and am now trying to decide what to bring with me. Love TV's garage and estate sales so not worried about setting up my home MY Way..... My dilemma is!!!
I have been single for quite some time and am used to making all the decisions for my life so I am surprised at where all this anxiety is coming from. Can anyone out there relate to what I am going through?
I can't wait to meet the people on this site....
It's normal to feel anxiety when making a move from one state to another, as I did the same thing. The extra stress comes with having to make all the decisions by yourself and it can become overwhelming.

Generally, most people fear change. They rather stay in a situation that is uncomfortable than striking out in a new direction. Everything is so new like finding doctors, how to get around and where are all the places that you need services from.

Once you get comfortable in your situation, the anxiety will go away. Just give it some time. Most people say it takes six to nine months to start feeling good about the big move.
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