Ice breaker
15 years ago in Houston I tried Internet dating sites three times to find the right person for me. Three BIZARRE strike-outs, (lots of dishonesty) so I haven't tried "dating" sites since.
TTV is not that "type" of site, but as I read threads here over the last week or so, there seems to be that eternal INTEREST? I posted a small introduction here, but I may have put it into the wrong thread? I have gotten help from two kindred spirits here, Kitty and Chris. Thanks to both of you. And I need more help.
Years ago on the Internet dating sites I created a "game". It was a simple game, and selfishly designed to confirmed to me that I might have found the "right" person. Of course my game could also be used by the other player to evaluate me. The game can be played in person, over the phone, or with text messages. The rules for the game were alternating questions which must be answered (later if necessary, but must be answered within 24 hrs), and MUST BE ANSWERED HONESTLY, and no question is disallowed. The game can be interrupted or even permanently TERMINATED by either party, but any "already asked" question, must be answered.
For my "selfish purposes", the game was more complex than some of my players realized. First, there are CRITICAL questions that I developed, which the other player could also use later for me. Second, it was very easy for me to evaluate an answer even when a player was NOT giving honest answers, so I was able to gain knowledge toward my goal, even from a dishonest answer. It should not be considered an adversarial game, because it was designed to increase understanding between two people.
There is a "door prize" for anyone who knows why I originally created the game.
Anyone want to revive my game here?
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