I'm sorry to learn of your loss.
When I lost my wife I attended GriefShare meetings. They have a website and there are churches in The Villages that offer the meetings.
A new group is scheduled for January at
Fairway Christian Church 251 Avenida Los Angelos
Lady Lake, FL 352-259-9305 Mondays, 9:30 am – 11:30 am
(01/13/2014 – 04/07/2014)
Some groups have not entered meeting times into the Griefshare database, but may currently be offering sessions. You can contact them directly for details.
Live Oaks Community Church The Villages, FL
New Covenant United Methodist Church 3470 Woodridge Drive
The Villages, FL 352-750-4529
First Baptist Church at The Villages 16985 SE 79th Clearview Ave.
The Villages, FL 352-205-7114
The Griefshare web site is at
GriefShare: Grief Recovery Support Groups
Again, my condolences on your loss.