I am so sorry to hear of your friend's loss. Grief support groups can be a very helpful thing. So can volunteering and being active. Let her find her own way but be there to hold her hand and listen. She's lucky to have a friend who cares so much about her. Blessings to you both.
There is a group of ladies that meet Saturday evenings at the El Santiago Rec Center at 7:00 pm. The majority are widows, several lost their husbands quite suddenly (one while playing tennis). Ages range from 60s to 80s. These women frequently do things together during the week as well. Your friend would be more than welcome to join them.
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Army/embassy brat - traveled too much to mention
Moved here from SF Bay Area (East Bay)
"There are only two ways to live your life: One is as though nothing is a miracle; the other is as though everything is a miracle." Albert Einstein
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