I also lost my husband a week before Christmas (his favorite holiday) very sudden also, no warning. This was now 6 years ago and still have a broken heart, was married for 41 years. When this happens people do not know what to say at least I didn't before it was me. Sorry works but I know how you feel does not. I could not have gotten thru without my girlfriends. I also went to a hospice counselor but didn't get much from it and am not a church person either. Everyone is different and time does help but there is no cure.
I moved here last year to somewhat start again and I find staying busy,busy works for me. Hope this helps a little so wish your friend the best and to hang in there.
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