My husband and I are moving there next week. I have two daughters and the oldest is so happy for us. The younger (34 yrs) is angry at me. She's happy yet she says in way she despises me for it even though she says she loves me. Says I'm deserting her and her husband and 2 little daughters. I tried to explain I will fly back to PA a lot to see them but it's not cutting the mustard. I only see her maybe 2 times a month and she is only 45 minutes from me. She claims it's bittersweet. So I truly understand where you are coming from. I almost called a halt to the move but a friend told me not to let her selfishness stand in my way to our happiness because we are getting older and older as each day passes and we deserve our time now. So grin and bear it. Que sera sera - what will be will be.
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