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Originally Posted by lovsthosebigdogs
I think chemistry happens between men and women, but also between people of the same sex (not homosexual/lesbian), as friends or between people and animals. It's the feeling that you 'click'. The feeling that you fit right together as friends or there is an attraction with each other that feels good and you want to spend more time together and get to know each other more. When it's between opposite sexes it's a sexual attraction that grows and keeps you interested in a way that's cerebral as well as physical. It makes you appreciate what that person says and does and the way they look and smell and feel and everything about them makes you want more. When it's between friends it's almost the same without the sex part. I have had chemistry with a new friend and just felt like we must have been friends for a long, long time because things felt good and right and, well... easy. I've even felt it with a dog (don't laugh). You pick the right dog and you just know it's the right one for you and immediately there is a connection of souls. You feel right together. I guess it doesn't matter the sex or the species, chemistry is the attraction that pulls one to another.
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It is sad when you really click with someone of the same sex (just as a friend, NOT sexual) and they don't seem to click with you. I am finding that 'group clicks' form in TV, and sometimes they don't want to let another person in that group. They are very friendly when you are alone with them, but when their 'group' is around, they don't have the time of day for you (sort of like 7th grade). I never expected this to happen at our age. Oh well, such is life. I personally think you can never have too many friends.