Cha is correct about the visual and spiritual side of things. Usually my interest in a woman commences when I notice her, even across a room. Then, when I talk to her it either develops or ebbs. I recall situations where I was very attracted to the appearance of a woman but when she opened her mouth and started to talk I immediately lost that initial interest. Other times I found a woman's physical appearance moderately attractive, not striking, yet after she and I engaged in conversation strong mutual attraction developed. I won't bore anyone with the stories.
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