I feel for you in having to make a decision to move back home. You didn't mention how long you have been here, if you have enjoyed your life together being able to be active an make friends, you can think of that as living your dream and being able to enjoy how ever long it's been. Maybe if you try to look at it as another phase that you both enjoyed but now it's time to start a new one. You are very fortunate to have loving children who want to spend time with you and relieve you of some of the things that have become difficult. It's not defeat because nothing lasts forever but you did have enjoyment and will always have memories of your life here. Maybe you will find that being closer to children will free you up some to reunite with old friends or start new things as you did here when you first came. All changes are scary but sometimes we project the what ifs and they never happen.
If you're set on not wanting to go back home, did you consider assisted living where you will have help, as much or as little and can continue to have an active lifestyle. Sorry this is so long, but we're having the opposite decision, to move away from kids. We have decided to move sell our house home, and not worry about having to make any future decisions.
Good luck to you and I hope you feel you can make the right decision which is best for everyone concerned.
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