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Originally Posted by redwitch
I know this will probably sound mean and petty, but why have a party on the same night as another TOTV get together (the dance club started by Doug and Pammy)? This just seems to make no sense to me.
Personally, I don't really feel comfortable at the idea of just singles. I'd prefer to see any and all events open to whoever wants to come. Whether the intent is there or not, it sounds like folks are there to hook up more than to get together. (It didn't at first, but lately that has been my feeling.)
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I just checked the Singles forum list of threads and I do not see any thread mentioning any "get together" on March 15 by a Doug and Pammy. I do not recall hearing about it. I still know nothing about it other than it apparently will have dancing! Is it there under a title that does not reveal its nature? When I schedule a party for my house, I assume I will have checked the Singles forum for other parties on a possible date, to avoid a conflict, but that would be about all I'd check. As for married folks not being invited, some married people have attended some of the informal singles parties. I had been thinking of maybe inviting my married next door neighbors to mine, and I doubt my single friends would mind much if I did, but on the other hand, the posted arguments for singles-only have merit.
AS for any alleged "hooking up", if the current younger folks meaning of that was intended, i.e., meeting for immediate sex and only sex, I somehow I missed those parties. Someone please post about the next one so I can be sure to make, er... I mean avoid it.