I once made 2 columns on a pad of paper about having / not having a partner. (Alone /housemate)
Most of the gripes were minor,nothing that could not be worked out, or compromised as far as I was concerned . It came down to emotional issues,was I (or partner ) happy or complacent ? Did I ( we) feel enhanced by each other? Sounds selfish but if I wasn't t happy " We " probably would not last very long in a commitment.I think every one has a little checklist of what they want to have in a partner. The problem there is that everyone wants a "miss or mister "perfect!
Be realistic life is not a fantasy,romantic paperback novel!
Think that you are;
kind,thoughtful,good listener,considerate,secure emotionally and ( somewhat financially stable)
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GrammyS
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