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Originally Posted by CFrance

That's disingenuous. Know darn well that's not what she meant.

Below is what I suggested in post number 5, and there was nothing disingenuous about it.

The o.p. asked for suggestions twice, and did not say "tell me only what I want to hear."

Hence, some responses did not meet everyone's PC standard...but the o.p. took it in stride by saying "I am who I am." I'm sure people respect her for that and more.

Maybe this is because the answer seems obvious. Try going to the outdoor bars where people are smoking, sit near them, order a drink, and start a conversation.

Or host a neighborhood BYO driveway party with smoking section

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