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Originally Posted by SantaClaus
I think that teaching our kids that we are just grown up germs and that morality is a mere social contract (to protect the weak) might have a big hand in it. Add in a coddling parent who applauds the slightest effort and shelters little egos like a hen on the roost and I'd say you've got a pretty good handle on the problem.
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You are not saying that a parent should scoff at a child's mediocre achievement and say that you expected him to do better when the child performed at their peak level, are you? Remember, there has to be some kid playing in right field - not everyone is capable of playing first base. Applaud that catch in right field even though it was a complete accident!
I do not believe in the t-ball games where there is no winner. Everyone has to learn that life has winning moments and losing moments. Rewards are not given for participation.
However, it is important to put your arm around your child and say, "I am proud of you."