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Originally Posted by Happinow
Has anyone ever been a big brother of a big sister? If so, could you tell me how you found the experience to be?
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I served as a board member for Big Brother and Big Sisters and my son was a "Little" matched to a Big Brother years ago.
It is a commitment that should not be taken lightly. If a parent has turned to this organization, they are hoping an older adult will step in and fill a void in a child's life.
Being a Big Brother or Big Sister is simple but you must realize that if the child enjoys your company, he will be waiting for you to contact him on a regular basis. If you fail to contact him ...if you fail to make regular contact, you have added disappointment in the life of a child who has already experienced much disappointment.
My son's first match was not a good one. In our small community, he was matched with a single lawyer who was quick to add Big Brother/Big Sister to his list of community services. The local newspaper did a front page story on the match and the lawyer received a lot of free publicity.
Unfortunately, during a three-month span, the Big Brother only contacted my son one time and that was to help with lawn work at his cottage. Needless to say, the match was dissolved.
On the other hand, I witnessed several matches where children really benefited with matches such as described by Medtrans in her post. Sadly, there always seems to be a long list of Little Brothers waiting for a match. There also seems to be a short list of men volunteering to be Big Brothers.
Again, it is a commitment not to be taken lightly.