Most new to TV get very involved in clubs and group activities because being retired means "what do I do now" .My hubby and I worked such long hours that hobbies were not a priority in our lives. Shopping, cleaning ,yard work and family ate up so called free time. Now as retired folks we are learning to work as a couple again. The first few months are deciding what goes where, and what do next,what do we still need , where do we buy it,or where the heck is our......in this house! Learning the area in and around TV ,making new friends wherever we go, riding around finding new places to see,shop and eat are the first baby steps. Being in the house 24/7 ( together) can be a difficult adjustment for both of you. Take time to realize you both need ( me) time carved out for each if you daily or weekly. Friends,movies and an individual hobby will help .
Remember that you have not been this close( always there) to your significant other since ?...
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