loved the article and the concept of the polarity between male and female which i probably clumsily tried to state at various discussion groups we have had before! it is SO true that (for myself) i want to be cherished and protected and cared for...if a guy cannot even pick up a tab it does not bode well for a future relationship....nothing to do with money, simply female psychology! of course after a few dates i always try to reciprocate as patty 55 said with theatre tickets or something similar to make him feel appreciated and not like a meal ticket. i do not feel the need to pay my way simply to leave when i want to...i would do that anyway!
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