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Old 09-16-2014, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted by irishamr View Post
I would like to share my experience with retirement. Much of what I feel has already been mentioned but I still feel I know even more. Does anyone realize living in The Villages you have more volunteers than you have positions available? People trying to learn or play social games are not truly welcome by the regulars. Many exercisers, golfers and pool regulars have become cliques that are hard to break into. What else is left, a life of solitude?? The College seems to repeat the same old, same old courses and we are way beyond them. Any comments would be appreciated.

I truly hope you find and explore what your passion may be. Have you considered going outside the community to volunteer? The area schools would probably welcome you with open arms. With budget cuts in every state, the schools are in need of someone to read to a class, go on a field trip, or set up an art show.

I've seen posts on this forum with people looking for someone to play golf or participate in some other activity. Posting here may help you and others, find someone with shared interests.

You had some very valid feelings in your post. We're in PA and can't be of too much help, but hope someone reading this thread will respond or send you a PM to begin what may be a mutually beneficial friendship.