It took me a year or two to adjust. After a high octane career I retired early at 53 ten years ago. Initially went to new job interviews (turned several job offers down), volunteered, and did some sales because in retirement a schedule, accomplishment and commitment were missing. Finally I settled into doing HS substitute teaching (which filled the need to contribute something meaningful and interact with students and teachers) and also did insurance inspections on the side. Now that I'm in TV I may volunteer or do some teaching and enjoy new friends, travel, and active sports. I know another poster mentioned that it is hard to break into the established groups ( it happened to me as well) but it is easy enough to do if you are not shy and you will be accepted over time - try the newer areas south of rt 466 since pretty much every one is trying to find their niche as well. Retirement reminds me of the same predicament we were in when going off to college - how am I going to fit in, what will I major in and what am I going to do when I grow up and graduate.
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