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Originally Posted by OBXNana
I agree with the first two posts. I will only address your last question "Otherwise, why is it that some women never communicate with me unless there is something to complain about? "
Until recently, and prior to Gracie's post, I didn't know if you were male or female. I wondered because I couldn't pick up anything personal about you. I have a feel for many on this forum and may be totally wrong. Some I know love dogs and others not so much. Some have physical challenges, others love to golf, and a few get their feather's ruffled when anyone has a differing opinion. With your posts I respect your strong convictions on what you eat, health related issues, and wonder sometimes what makes you tick. Maybe it's my behavioral science background, but when I see your posts I want to know more. Who is Villages PL beyond health and food?
Most people on this forum don't know each other personally and some may be hiding behind a key board telling lies. For me, it's the personal connection you feel with a person that builds a bond and without a bond, it may be hard for some to relate. So, Villages PL, what I suggest is posting on other topics and letting us get to know who you really are behind the amazing ability to eat like the rest of us probably should and don't!
I am a female, told I think like a man, and still don't take that as a compliment or criticism. I am simply me.
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Thanks, I appreciate your reply.
Here's where I get in trouble.
It seems like what you're saying is that gender
is important. Without it you wouldn't feel a personal connection and wouldn't be able to form a bond. And you say it would be hard for some to relate without forming a bond. And, if I may go one step further, if a person can't relate, it likely won't promote favorable ongoing communications.
The problem is: I
have noticed a lot of gender bias. And if I had it to do all over again, I probably wouldn't divulge my gender.