[manaboutown]

Originally Posted by bettymg1866

njbchbum: so u are saying that I should have to work to gain someone's respect right off the bat? dont you automatically show respect for people until they show you differently? Let me give you an example... I worked as a hostess at one of our busy country clubs. It was mid October and it was obvious that the snowbirds were starting to return due to the number of guests. There was a sign stating that all guests should see the hostess for to be seated. i brought a table of 4 to the back of the restaurant when 4 men sat down right in front of me and i "respectfully" asked the gentlemen to see the hostess to get on the list for a table, as this couple had already waited 30 minutes for a table. the response was "Listen sweety... dont even f-ck with me, i just got back yesterday and i am not gonna take any **** from some one like you. i am a resident and you can tell your Hostess to find them another table..." They were snowbirds as they were joking about how the full timers think they should get a table before them... I was doing my job and was embarrassed for myself and the guests. Think about this njbchbum..... what would you say if this was your wife.... this is not the first time i have been put in this position so you can see why i feel the way i do.. I have respect for most snowbirds and my dearest friends here in the Villages are snowbirds. Just saying that some need a little "attitude adjustment"....

Hopefully you did not serve them and had them removed, refusing them any future service.