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Old 10-30-2014, 11:28 PM
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Originally Posted by NotGolfer View Post
That said, our neighborhood isn't typical in where "everyone" is social together.
I think your neighborhood is more typical than you think. A lot of neighbors are somewhat shy and "keep to themselves". But they are friendly if you make the first move.

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Originally Posted by Shimpy View Post
I haven't found it difficult at all. After reading all the hype of TV I had the impression that when I first moved in that the whole neighborhood would come over and give me a big welcome when they saw the moving truck, but nope, not a one. My neighbors are friendly but keep to themselves.
All my friends have come from people I've met at the neighborhood pool or several clubs I've joined.
You have to get out and join activities to meet people with similiar interests, they won't come knocking on your door.
I agree that it does take a little effort to meet new friends. And you won't become BFFs with everyone you meet.
As Shimpy said, they won't come knocking on your door (usually).
But if you are open and welcoming, soon you will have many wonderful new friends.
It's nice to bond with people who are the same age and experiencing the same challenges and joys as you are.
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