I understand your point Mudder. My issue is blaming the dentist when he/she may only be looking out for your health. If I go to a mechanic and tell him my transmission is slipping he may give me a few options...add more trans fluid...tighten the bands (think that's correct

) or replace the transmission. What I do is up to me....if I don't have the funds I will go for the cheap fix. The ideal fix is to replace it. I don't blame the mechanic if he tells me the options. The cardiologist may have been a bad example....how about a dermatologist? You have a growth on your nose....choice 1.free..leave it. choice 2. dig it out, put a bandaid on it and learn to live with the scar. Choice 3. Surgically remove and repair the wound with small sutures that will not leave a scar. I guarantee that anyone that could afford it, with or without insurance, would choose option 3.
We grew up in the same generation. I don't know how your folks were but mine both had dentures from a young age. Dental care had no importance unless you had a toothache and you went to a dentist that yanked it out, seeming to not care if it hurt. The whole 'they're only teeth' attitude prevailed. We are now realizing that they are not 'only' teeth...they are an important part of our health. Bad teeth and gum disease contribute to heart problems. I don't like to paint everything with a broad brush but I feel that the majority of Villagers can afford to take care of their teeth. More that anyone else, I hate anyone that takes advantage of people, especially those in the medical profession. What you need to do is ASK your dentist to explain why the procedures are deemed necessary..ask to see the xrays...show the xrays to another dentist (additional cost...but it IS your health). Make an informed decision based on facts....not automatically assuming that the dentist is 'out to get your money.)'