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Originally Posted by blueash

The wife should remember that upon her, to the greatest extent, devolves the duty of making home happy. She should do nothing to make her husband feel uncomfortable, either mentally or physically, but on the other hand she should strive to the utmost of her ability to do whatever is best calculated to please him, continually showing him that her love, plighted upon the altar, remains steadfast, and that no vicissitudes of fortune can change or diminish it.

She should never indulge in fits of temper, hysterics, or other habits of ill-breeding, which, though easy to conquer at first, grow and strengthen with indulgence, if she should retain her husband as her lover and her dearest and nearest friend. She should be equally as neat and tidy respecting her dress and personal appearance at home as when she appears in society, and her manners towards her husband should be as kind and pleasing when alone with him as when in company. She should bear in mind that to retain the good opinion of her husband is worth far more than to gain the good opinion of hundreds of the devotees of society, and that as she possesses the love and confidence of her husband, so will she receive the respect and esteem of all his friends.

She should consult the disposition and tastes of her husband, and endeavour to lead him to high and noble thoughts, lofty aims, and temporal comfort; be ever ready to welcome him home, and in his companionship draw his thoughts from business and lead him to the enjoyment of home comforts and happiness. The influence of a good wife over her husband may be very great, if she exerts it in the right direction. She should, above all things, study to learn the disposition of her husband, and if, perchance, she finds herself united to a man of quick and violent temper, the utmost discretion, as well as perfect equanimity, on her part is required, for she should have such perfect control over herself as to calm his perturbed spirits

But it should be understood, that for every wife the first duty is the making and keeping of her own home! Her first and best work should be done there—and until it is well done—she has no right to go outside to take up other duties. She is to be a "worker at home!"
Her hand wipes away the teardrops when there is sorrow. In sickness she is the tender nurse. She bears upon her own heart every burden that weighs upon her husband. No matter how the world goes with him during the day—when he enters his own door he meets the fragrant atmosphere of love
She will look well to her personal appearance; no woman can be careless in her dress, slovenly and untidy—and long keep her place on the throne of her husband's life. She will look well to her inner life. She must have mental attractiveness. She will seek to be clothed in spiritual beauty. Her husband must see in her ever-new loveliness, as the years move on.
We have all heard the old saying, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” If a wife has claimed her husband’s heart for God, she might try reaching it through his stomach, if all else has failed.

All from websites on how to be a Good Christian Wife.

Sorry, but I am missing your point. If you are trying to compare this to being subjected to Shira law, you can't understand what that is. Where does it say that you will be stoned to death for "alleged" adultery. Where does it say that you are divorced because your husband says I divorce the 3 times. Where does it state you are a sex slave to your husband. Where does it say if divorced you are shunned and allowed to starve to death.

Every free women in the world should be violently protesting Shira law and all the enslaved women in the world subjected to it. And yet the womens movement is more concerned about equal pay and sexual harassment. I am not saying they shouldn't be, but I fail to see any logic for fighting those issues and doing nothing about Shira law. Which is so much more harmful to women all over the world. It was stated why do they do this? For the rush? And the real answer is they are forced to. Daughters are sold into bondage by their own fathers. Women are forced into sexual slaves or be killed.

I have and will continue to do what ever I can to remove this blight from mankind. Unfortunately I seem to be a voice of one. There is no national or international outrage over this.