hmm, kindness and generosity. i am afraid that perhaps after being single for a long time it may be difficult to constantly "turn toward" another person as the article discusses....do we become too selfish in our routines to make room for someone else? or are some people just naturally selfish from youth and it has nothing to do with long time singleness? i can remember my own failures in this area which make it scary to commit again! it is a big responsibility to have someone love you!
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