I would have searched out my biological parents way before I decided to do it. It turned out to a relatively easy search. I had a great life with adopted family, but my biological family would have been easier on my bio mother. My bio parents married 4 years after me so I have a bio sister and bio brother. I did meet my bio father, my bio mother suffered mentally due to her mother's unkindness. It's not all hugs and kisses meeting your bio family but it is worth it. So that's what I would have done differently, but do not for one moment regret I life I have had. I was lucky to have led a life of the highest level of comfort and material things......but there was always some little thing missing.
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